Are they or aren’t they really dating? It’s what everyone wants to know.

Well, Jamie Foxx and Katie Holmes have allegedly been together for four years in secret, but are now said to be ready to come out of the dating closet. They are so brave!

The pair have somehow managed to avoid photographers and have reportedly gone to great lengths to keep their relationship on the down low.

“To make it impossible to get photo evidence that they are together, they traveled in cars with tinted windows and took secret back elevators,” a source told Us Weekly. “They had it down to a science.”
And while a blurry snap of Katie on a dinner date with who was assumed to be Jamie surfaced earlier this month, she is the one that is said to be itching to go public. Make it Facebook official, girl!

“Katie is tired of playing the hiding game,” the source added.
One reason floating around for the former Dawson’s Creek actresses’ change of heart are reports that her divorce from Tom Cruisehad a stipulation to not publicly date anyone for five years. Katie and Tom split in June 2012, so the five year mark is coming up.

Now neither Katie nor Jamie have officially commented, but if their love is for real, here’s hoping they find the strength to be loud and proud together.